Mrs. Gradenko,
That's the lie that the 60's era tried to make everyone believe. But, the truth is women's so-called sexual freedom was just an easier way for men to get what they wanted without having to make a commitment.
What I said also holds true for women as well. No man should give himself to a woman if she's not willing to commit to him for life, either. So, I'm not being sexist here. I'm just simply stating the facts.
Since the "sexual revolution" there have been way more broken relationships and marriages because people lost all boundaries and didn't get to know each other well enough intellectually and emotionally before getting married and
then giving their bodies to their spouses
after their vows and rings were exchanged. When people do that, they have a much higher success rate at truly happy, long-term (till death do us part) marriages. And they also don't have all the baggage that you get from having had so many sexual partners. People don't realize how much they hurt their own spirits by doing that with people who aren't their spouse. They spread themselves thin (no pun intended) till they've lost themselves in all these different people who didn't truly care for them selflessly and took something so precious from them that they can never get back.
Please just don't think of sex as something casual like playing sports or something. It's such a precious thing and you and your body are such a precious thing that no one deserves it but someone who will honor it properly and guard it with his life. That would be the best sex imaginable with someone like that!