[quote="MariaH"]I get the impression that more than likely Sting had someone else read the book and tell him about the parts about himself.
I dont know why but the main question I have is this:
Stewart gave Sting a beautiful french horn for this birthday. I thought that was very "sweet" of Stewart and gracious really as a gift from one musician to another.
As far as was reported I do not believe that Sting gave Stewart any type of gift whatsoever.
But in STH Stewart says when he & Sting had an argument he asked for the french horn back and Sting said he trashed it! I found this to be SO malicious... was stewart being sarcastic or did Sting really ruin the gift?
If so I would take his "sweet" remark the mark very much in an arrogant sarcastic negative.
I've been a Sting fan but that said I will admit that that type of meanness just seems vindictive and petty and not very brotherly
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I haven't commented on this thread thus far, but I did want to respond to this.
Obviously, none of us know what really happened - but I found the passage quoted above to be one of the funniest parts of the book. It just seemed to me to be very much a "sibling rivalry" kind of episode - one brother does something nice for the other, five minutes later they want to kill each other, they both "stew" (pardon the pun) overnight, and then snark at each other the next day to break the ice - almost as if to acknowledge the previous night's anger and it's ridiculousness. Family loves each other - but they don't have to LIKE each other. BUT they're family, and that's a bond that can't just cease to exist. Think of it like Pee Wee Herman saying, "I know you are, but what am I?" after being called a name. Can you REALLY imagine Sting and Stewart "hugging it out" after an argument? Or would it be more in character for them to snipe at each other the next day as a way to let it go?
I believe that it happened - and I believe those were probably close to or the exact words used - and I also believe that the whole exchange was 100% tongue-in-cheek.
I'm not writing very coherently today. I hope this makes sense.
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Letting my raven tresses wave with nameless grace.