I just was MISSING your GREAT avatar...One of my favorites on the board, must say.
It's OK if Eliah or anybody else's gay, I live in SF, and half of my friends are, I was not passing judgment of any kind. Live and let live, and whatever floats your boat is my life philosophy. If you find him cute and a great actor (?) it is totally OK with me.
Yes, I know everybody hates Tom. I remember the Risky Business Tom (I still have identical sunglasses) and the Top Gun Tom, and above all the Born on the 4th of July, Rain Man, Magnolia, Collateral Tom. I just love his acting, and was very sad to see that Scientology has completely transformed him. He was ruined by Catholicism, like so many of us has run away from that as soon as he grew up.
I know somebody who knows David Mischevitze (or whatever is his name) and told me that the guy is Pure Evil. I don't believe in Good/Evil, but was sad to learn what people surround Tom these days.